IS LONELINESS MATTERS IN A TIME OF SOCIAL DISTANCING

As we are in the stage where everyone is locked down in their own houses,Here the loneliness comes for a people who cannot stay locked for the weeks lockdown in their houses.

– WHAT IS LONELINESS?

Loneliness defines the people’s mind that can be afraid of missing out on something in weakness,tiredness,procrastinate.So,It is true that loneliness harms your mental health.

loneliness is the feeling we get when our need for rewarding social contact and relationships is not met. But loneliness is not always the same as being alone.You may choose to be alone and live happily without much contact with other people, while others may find this a lonely experience.

-HOW CAN OVERCOME THE LONELINESS IN A TIME OF SOCIAL DISTANCING?

7 ways to overcome loneliness-

1. REACH OUT TO OTHERS, AND JOIN GROUPS WITH SIMILAR INTERESTS AS YOURS.
2. GET TO KNOW YOURSELF BETTER.
3. TALK TO SOMEONE NEW WHEN YOU’RE OUT AND ABOUT
4. SPEND LESS TIME ON TECHNOLOGY, AND MORE TIME IN THE REAL WORLD TO AVOID LONELINESS.
5. ASK YOURSELF IF YOUR FEELINGS ACTUALLY REPRESENT REALITY OR NOT.
6. FOCUS YOUR ATTENTION ON HELPING OTHERS INSTEAD OF FOCUSING IT ON YOUR OWN FEELINGS.
7. GET INVOLVED IN ACTIVITIES THAT YOU TRULY ENJOY.

– CASE STUDY

Louise Hawkley, PhD, says we should think of loneliness not as a state but as a motivation to get social. Here’s how:
Get out and about. You don’t have to be best friends with someone to benefit from interaction. Amity Brown, who is separated from her husband, takes walks around her neighborhood, smiling at people she passes. “When I started getting to know the neighborhood and the people around me, I felt like part of a community,” she says.
Be selective about making friends. Hawkley points out that if you’re desperate for Relationships, you may be willing to tolerate unacceptable treatment. Now that Brown is feeling more stable, she says, “I’m more careful when I choose my friends to make sure they’re low-drama.”
Stay positive. Lonely people tend to expect rejection, which makes it more likely to happen. Social cognitive therapy can help people reframe their thoughts about how others see them.

WHY SOCIAL DISTANCING IS SO STRANGE?
We know positive social support can improve our capacity to cope with stress. But right now we’re being asked to keep our distance from others to minimise the spread of the virus.
Many people are facing periods of enforced isolation if they are believed to have COVID-19 or have been in contact with someone who has.
Even those of us who appear to be healthy are being directed to practise social distancing, a range of strategies designed to slow the spread of disease and protect vulnerable groups from becoming infected.
Among other things, this means when we’re around others, we shouldn’t get too close, and should avoid things like kissing and shaking hands.
This advice has seen the cancellation of large events of more than 500 people, while smaller groups and organisations have also moved to cancel events and regular activities. Many workplaces with the capacity to do so have asked their staff to work from home.

Conclusion
Loneliness is a temporary feeling which happens to every human being in their life.So,be conscious of what’s happening around your place and make the social distancing.Don’t feel lonely at all.
Wash your hands at regular intervals.
#stay home #stay safe

DIVYANSH GIRDHAR
(Digital marketer)

INTERVIEW WITH DOMINIQUE MELLO NOBLE ( SOCIAL MEDIA EXPERT )

FACEBOOK AND INSTAGRAM ADS SPECIALIST
MARKETING EXPERT

INTERVIEW CONVERSATION

1. A small introduction of your? 20-40 words

Hi there, I’m a 28 girl from Brazil living in the beautiful Lisbon. One of the things I love the most is discover and taste new beers also I am a big fan of Football. I started at Digital Marketing 3 years ago and it became a passion and a completely career change. I’m a truly believer that everything you constantly dream about one day became reality, not only because of our thoughts and actions but also because of energy.

2. What is the biggest tough phase in your life ? And how you face it ? it can be personal or professional experience

My hardest time in life was when I move to Portugal 3 and a half years ago without having a visa, money, a plan or friends. Was a crazy decision to come and in the beginning I was suffering by being lonely, far away from my friends and family, with a bartending job, struggling to live with my own decisions after abandoning Law School after 5 years right before graduation. I think I follow my instincts and I was very persistent in what I wanted to achieve. With a lot of hard work I was able to put myself in the place I wanted to be, found new friends, new dreams and ambitions and build a new career path that brought me the joy Law never was able to deliver.

3.What advise or Guide will you give if a person is in learning stage of any life?

I guess no matter the stage or phase a person is passing through, learning and developing skills are a daily job where you are your own boss and you need to push yourself through all the limitations you might face it. Consistency and dedication are the most important things when you want to develop yourself intellectually and spiritually.

4.What is your prospective regarding future use of facebook and instagram ads?

I believe Instagram and Facebook have a very big power for business and digital marketing in general. Facebook is one of the biggest companies in the world and they have a lot of power and potential so I believe social media marketing might change in the future, the platforms will try to catch up with the changes and eventually it might other platforms gain as well some space, but what Facebook accomplish till now is incredible and they will always have the power to reinvent and or buy the new platforms out there, therefore I believe there will always be a room for Facebook Ads in the future, even if platforms, apps and socials change names and forms.

5. Share your experience how you get your first client on internet world and how was it feeling?

I got my first client through Instagram after starting with a business profile on October of 2019. I had other clients before, but all of them had work with me in the past in the time I was still working as a employee for Facebook. But they knew me and my work so was a lot of trust . However, getting a client from a Instagram was totally new and I was so excited that someone that never saw me before, or knew my work dedication and ethics, would be interested in trust my words, my commitment and my decisions. They are still my clients and I’m much thankful for them for all the trust they put on me and my work.

6. what marks will you give to your interviewer? or suggestions?

Choose one subject you are good at it, or that you want to be good at it and fully dedicate yourself, try to be the best at it, find new always to improve yourself and be on top of your own expectations. You will know your worth and won’t let anyone tell you the opposite. Be confident in yourself always, even when people might suggest you are not good enough.


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CONCLUSION

GOT THE GREAT EXPERIENCE AFTER TAKEN THE INTERVIEW WITH DOMINIQUE MELLO NOBLE( FB AND INSTAGRAM ADS EXPERT)
THANKS
CHEERS
DIVYANSH GIRDHAR